The 3 Rituals
Every day, 11 minutes 11 seconds. Every 11 days, something together. Every 111 days, graduate.
Daily check-in, 11m 11s: Where are you? What are you exploring? What are you building? What do you need? What can you give?
Every 11 days, do something together — shared memory is the glue of a collective.
Every 111 days, graduate: reflect, demonstrate, teach, celebrate, give back, decide what's next. You graduate because you changed, not because time passed.
Try this
- Find one check-in partner.
- Ask the five questions tomorrow.
- Put the next 11-day gathering in the calendar.
Projects: 1 · 11 · 111 days
1 day
First check-in
- Run an 11m 11s check-in with one person.
- Answer all five questions honestly.
- Offer one thing you can give.
11 days
Shared memory
- Check in daily for 11 days.
- On day 11, do something together.
- Document it.
111 days
Graduation
- Hold daily check-ins and 10 gatherings.
- Prepare a demonstration of how you changed.
- Teach it. Celebrate. Decide next.
No certificate at the end. Share what you made with someone — that's the proof.